Kink-related things I want to try [in progress]

Because I’d rather write it here than in the fetishes list. It’d give me more room to expand and plus you won’t be blasted in the face with it every time I update this. I’m in various stages of progression with these things. Some things are things I haven’t done, and some things are ones […]

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

Just what is a Daddy Dom? Well, to start with, a Daddy Dom is first and foremost a Dom. He chooses the subcategory of “Daddy” within the lifestyle of dominance and submission (D/s). Let’s get one thing out of the way right at the beginning. A Daddy Dom does not promote incest or pedophilia as […]

Thoughts after my bdsm first play party

Tonight, I got a chance to attend a series of kink seminars and workshops, followed by my first ever play party. I’m still pretty awake, so I wanted to get my thoughts down. Sensual Rope Play Demonstration – This was probably the easiest place for me to start, given my limited kink experience, so I […]

I’m not the girl you want me to be

I feel like I need a warning label. Not the kind that’s visible to the public, but maybe something tattooed across my hip or my breast – the kind only a lover can see. I’m not the girl you want me to be. To my sweet amazing wonderful supportive dependable reliable comfortable comforting almost-husband ex-boyfriend: […]

Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde

Faster harder rutting into you fucking you violating you using you How have I become this? I am always gentle caring and endearing tantalizing you arousing you exciting you slowly drawing out your femininity Yet I watch from outside myself seeing only an animal trapping his prey clawing, biting claiming I cry inside your cries […]

That Girl On The Bus

There have been high-profile cases in the Canadian legal system lately that have highlighted the stigma and ignorance toward sexual assault victims. The judges have been called out on their bullshit, mostly. What these cases have highlighted are the myths surrounding sexual assault and the victim that remain pervasive today. These myths and stigmatizing attitudes […]

Something that has been on my mind

Recently a friend asked me if I saw myself veering to one side of the slash or the other in the future. I really don’t know. I may be a middle of the road kind of girl forever. I once called myself a “bad submissive.” I felt that I was bad because I couldn’t tolerate […]

Le Dom/Maître n’est pas un psychiatre

En tant que dominant intelligent et ayant des forces psychologiques Oui, j’aime avoir se sentiment d’importance pour ma partenaire. Oui, j’aime faire un travail psychologique/coach et être présent. Oui, j’aime favoriser ma partenaire à s’épanouir, à s’assumer et à grandir. Oui, j’aime rassurer et l’aider à surmonter ses bugs et craintes. Oui, j’aime utiliser mes […]

Why Princess??

I am a Princess submissive. I understand that can mean different things to different people. Some questions I’ve been asked are as follows: So you’re basically a pillow princess? Does da widdle pwincess need a Daddy? Here are my answers to that: No, I’m not a pillow princess. Yes, it’s true, I do require extra […]


What once was, but can never be again. A touch, a kiss, a caress. One to set my soul on fire. We burned and raged on higher and higher. Until the rain came and quenched our desires Alone once more no hope insight no spark for my fuel no hunger for my desire Darkness surrounded […]