Sticks and Stones

As a child I grew up with the saying Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.

I thought in a lifestyle where we were supposed to be open and non-judgmental that I would never see this occur….

The realization that words do indeed hurt injure and possibly cause permanent damage to an individual/individuals mentally physically and emotionally, let alone their reputation.

It has recently come to my attention that three of the greatest miss used and misunderstood words that are frequently used in the lifestyle may and can absolutely impact the of an individual and/or their reputation…

noun: assumption; plural noun: assumptions; noun: Assumption

A thing that is accepted as true or as certain to happen, without proof. Synonyms: supposition, presumption, belief, expectation, conjecture, speculation, surmise, guess, premise, hypothesis; More: conclusion, deduction, inference; rareillation, notion, impression “an informed assumption”

noun: presumption

An act or instance of taking something to be true or adopting a particular attitude toward something, especially at the start of a chain of argument or action.
An idea that is taken to be true and often used as the basis for other ideas, although it is not known for certain.
Synonyms: assumption, supposition, presupposition, belief, guess, judgment, surmise, conjecture, speculation, hypothesis, postulation, inference, deduction, conclusion

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noun: prejudice; plural noun: prejudices

A preconceived opinion that is not based on reason or actual experience. “prejudice against our lifestyle”

Synonyms: preconceived idea, preconception, prejudgment
Dislike, hostility, or unjust behavior deriving from unfounded opinions.
Synonyms: bigotry, bias, partisanship, partiality, intolerance, discrimination, unfairness, inequality; harm or injury that results or may result from some action or judgment, detriment, harm, damage, injury, hurt, loss

It is my belief that these to aforementioned words can do irreparable damage to an individual’s moral and character. Making statements that are unproven, unknown and/or speculated without knowledge for a fact is nothing short of childish behavior…

One of the things I have always tried to instill in ANY relationship is to never judge people by what you “think”.. .Treat people the way you always want / or have wanted people to treat you… In this lifestyle there are many, many instances where this has damaged people. Why on earth would someone do this??? Because they feel insecure about themselves??? Or.. Could there be other motives??? Possibly who knows.. I know of many cases of this occurring and it is truly sad…

What is there to stop me from going around spreading vicious rumors about others??? Nothing but my integrity… What kind of damage would be done in a relationship if you owned a submissive and I went around and said your submissive gave me head or fucked me in the back seat of my (or better yet) your car or bed???? Would it cause problems???? Things that make you go HMMMMMMMMM
When He Calls Me His……….

Hmmm the word mine……there used to be a time in my life, where that word represented selfish. Or possessive. Something i thought was ever so wrong. Noone should be selfishly possessive of things and most importantly.of a human. Yet here i am, a strong, stubborn, non filtered woman, who would in years past give you a dirty.look if you called me that. Well as i grow, and learn, in this lifestyle ive had my eyes.opened. the second he calls me mine. i completely and with all the love i can give, melt. This word that used to make me cringe, now makes my heart overflow with love, pride, and submission to the one person who i never want to stop calling me his. That word will be tattooed on my body very soon. It is my way.of honoring and reminding me that being his means i am important to him and will always be.

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