I’m not finding what i want and am thinking of giving up the search

I am not finding what i am looking for on here and do not know how to go about getting it.

I have made a few wonderful friends here and would never trade them in.

I also want a life partner/s and I have not found that.

I have friends and I have people that enjoy playing with me and not having to pay.

See I am a Professional Dominatrix.

I am 37.

I am BBW.

I have wildly oppossing appetites.

I am a parent.

I am passionate.

I live in a city where i really know no one and have been here about 4 years. The culture is very different from what i am use too.

I am dominant in all things in my life which is why i seek a break and someone to share my life, mind, and body with.

I am a little sad & confused. I am also having the worst negative self talk. All the wonderful things i just mentioned above about myself are the same things i wonder if they are the reason i can not have what i want. I kind of want to give up on the search. When i maintain control it keeps me safe and my life in order. As much order as is the chaos that is my life :). I gave up control by accident once and was introduced to even more “stuff”.
What can I do to find what i want? What ever labels you give it, it’s truly just love. I want to be loved by someone who consumes me, is smarter than me, is stronger than me, and is in control.

I am debating on leaving these sites alone as, yes i meet a handful of great people that are all mixed in with people that just want my service that i pay my bills with for free. Then there are the ones looking for internet fun. I understand compartmentalizing. I do not do this. I live my life 24/7 and am myself 24/7. My Self can not be labeled or defined in few words.

Nina Toubale

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